be still and know

my buddy, david (the frustrated business mogul), recently sent me a link to an article he read on (a website for creative, entrepreneurial types) entitled, “what happened to downtime?  the extinction of deep thinking and sacred space.”  as with most church leaders, my appetite for preaching fodder is exceeded only by my quest for creativity, and i found spiritual parallels throughout this article.  following is part of the article along with my perceptive comments.
Interruption-free space is sacred. Yet, in the digital era we live in, we are losing hold of the few sacred spaces that remain untouched by email, the internet, people, and other forms of distraction. Our cars now have mobile phone integration and a thousand satellite radio stations. When walking from one place to another, we have our devices streaming data from dozens of sources. Even at our bedside, we now have our iPads with heaps of digital apps and the world’s information at our fingertips.
There has been much discussion about the value of the “creative pause” – a state described as “the shift from being fully engaged in a creative activity to being passively engaged, or the shift to being disengaged altogether.” This phenomenon is the seed of the break-through “a-ha!” moments that people so frequently report having in the shower. In these moments, you are completely isolated, and your mind is able to wander and churn big questions without interruption. However, despite the incredible power and potential of sacred spaces, they are quickly becoming extinct. We are depriving ourselves of every opportunity for disconnection. And our imaginations suffer the consequences.

Why do we give up our sacred space so easily? Because space is scary. During these temporary voids of distraction, our minds return to the uncertainty and fears that plague all of us. To escape this chasm of self-doubt and unanswered questions, you tune into all of the activity and data for reassurance. But this desperate need for constant connection and stimulation is not a modern problem. I would argue that we have always sought a state of constant connection from the dawn of time, it’s just never been possible until now. We are depriving ourselves of every opportunity for disconnection.

The need to be connected is, in fact, very basic in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, the psychological theory that explains the largest and most fundamental human desires. Our need for a sense of belonging comes right after physical safety. We thrive on friendship, family, and the constant affirmation of our existence and relevance. Our self-esteem is largely a product of our interactions with others. It is now possible to always feel loved and cared for, thanks to the efficiency of our “comment walls” on Facebook and seamless connection with everyone we’ve ever known. Your confidence and self-esteem can quickly be reassured by checking your number of “followers” on Twitter or the number of “likes” garnered by your photographs and blog posts. The traction you are getting in your projects, or with your business, can now be measured and reported in real time. Our insatiable need to tune into information – at the expense of savoring our downtime – is a form of “work” (something I call “insecurity work”) that we do to reassure ourselves.
Soon enough, planes, trains, subways, and, yes, showers will offer the option of staying connected. Knowing that we cannot rely on spaces that force us to unplug to survive much longer, we must be proactive in creating these spaces for ourselves. And when we have a precious opportunity to NOT be connected, we should develop the capacity to use it and protect it.

twitter in the shower?  god help us!  the author goes on to offer five potential solutions for “connection overload”:
1. Rituals for unplugging
similar “rituals” have been around forever.  the bible calls them “sabbaths.”
2. Daily doses of deep thinking

3. Meditation and naps to clear the mind.
4. Self-awareness and psychological investment
this is one suggestion i take issue with.  for maximum creativity, the author argues that we should seek professional, therapeutic help in order to “acknowledge where our anxiety comes from. Awareness is always the first step in solving any problem.”
5. Protect the state of no-intent.

here, the author says that “unconscious creativity” is available as we “just look out the window for 10 minutes – and ponder.”  our brain will automatically seek out unfamiliar, unexplored territory.
i have written often about the encroaching dangers of social media, and the tragedy of allowing the art of conversation to become extinct in our culture.  is it possible that “connectedness,” for all its obvious benefits, is a trap that will eventually isolate us from each other and the lord?
god tells us that we recognize and acknowledge him when we “be still” (psalm 46:10).  the best term we have in the english language for this exercise is muse ( “to think or meditate deeply”).  but rather than carving out a place in our lives to muse, and thus know god, we seek amusement–the opposite of muse.
one thing scott belsky, author of the referenced article, got right:  if we don’t protect our sacred spaces, our souls will shrivel up and die.

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